Kelsey Wonderlin • Dating Coach for Women • Licensed Therapist on Instagram: "4. “I can’t date anyone who isn’t tall.” You don’t have to drop your standards to find your person, but height isn’t a standard LOL Real standards are things like character, emotional maturity, and consistency. 5. “If I give more, he’ll want to stay.” Learned the hard way that love isn’t earned by bending over backwards for someone. That’s self-abandonment. The right person didn’t need me to prove myself. If you haven’