Shame Shame Shame | Nursery Rhymes & Kids' Songs | BusSongs.com
Shame Shame Shame | Nursery Rhymes & Kids' Songs | BusSongs.com
21.2K viewsMar 23, 2009
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Never shame children for being bad. Like, if they make a mistake, don't shame them for it. You never want their bad behaviour to become part of their identity. It's just an action. Deal with bad behavior by following through with consequences, but then you focus on the good kid, like, you try and bring out the good. You want children to feel good about themselves, cause that's when you get good kids. Where you put your energy, where you put your focus is what grows. Looking for the first step to
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Never shame children for being bad. Like, if they make a mistake, don't shame them for it. You never want their bad behaviour to become part of their identity. It's just an action. Deal with bad behavior by following through with consequences, but then you focus on the good kid, like, you try and bring out the good. You want children to feel good about themselves, cause that's when you get good kids. Where you put your energy, where you put your focus is what grows. Looking for the first step to
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Shame doesn’t change behavior long-term. It suppresses it. When children feel shame, they learn to hide, not to grow. Replace shame with curiosity — that’s where healing happens. #shamefreeparenting #traumahealing #nervoussystemregulation #parentingawareness #reparenting | Alesandra Rodriguez
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Shame doesn’t change behavior long-term. It suppresses it. When children feel shame, they learn to hide, not to grow. Replace shame with curiosity — that’s where healing happens. #shamefreeparenting #traumahealing #nervoussystemregulation #parentingawareness #reparenting | Alesandra Rodriguez
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The Psychology of Shame
The Psychology of Shame
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When we shame children or get angry over their behaviour, they feel bad about themselves and become so preoccupied with their negative feelings they don’t internalize the lesson. This creates a cycle where the child repeats the same mistake, and parents become more frustrated and disappointed. Over time the child reaches the conclusion/belief they’re ‘bad’. Instead of shaming your child, or getting angry, uncover what caused them to act out in the first place: are they upset, tired, or anxious?
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When we shame children or get angry over their behaviour, they feel bad about themselves and become so preoccupied with their negative feelings they don’t internalize the lesson. This creates a cycle where the child repeats the same mistake, and parents become more frustrated and disappointed. Over time the child reaches the conclusion/belief they’re ‘bad’. Instead of shaming your child, or getting angry, uncover what caused them to act out in the first place: are they upset, tired, or anxious?
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FacebookAndrew Shaw
All of those examples actually can be shame... let me explain. 🌿 Example one: Can't lose. 🚫 Shame tells them "your lovability and worth is tied to the outcome of this game. If you don't win 🏆 ... well, we all know what THAT means." Example two: Covering ears. 👂🏼 Shame tells them, "They are going to tell you how unloveable you are. QUICK, protect us. If we can't hear it, it's like it's not happening!" Example three: Refusing to apologize. ❌ Shame tells them, "If you say you are sorry, you ar
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All of those examples actually can be shame... let me explain. 🌿 Example one: Can't lose. 🚫 Shame tells them "your lovability and worth is tied to the outcome of this game. If you don't win 🏆 ... well, we all know what THAT means." Example two: Covering ears. 👂🏼 Shame tells them, "They are going to tell you how unloveable you are. QUICK, protect us. If we can't hear it, it's like it's not happening!" Example three: Refusing to apologize. ❌ Shame tells them, "If you say you are sorry, you ar
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